What do girls want in a man? Whether he be an African man, an American man, a man in all generalities from all works of life. There are basic things most girls would like in a guy. I’ve listed 5, you’re welcome.
Be the Communicator.
TALK, ask questions, act interested. What did you have for lunch? what are you doing later? say whats on your mind. The last thing women want is someone who can’t discern an emotion that would help a relationship in the long run. Women want to know everything and therefore expect the same from a guy. When women stop asking questions, there’s a problem.
Share your dreams.
What did you want to be when you were 10? A firefighter? A ghost detective? A trash man? It is important to share your story, I’m almost positive if the woman is on your side she’ll support whatever it is your dreams convey. Include her, women are more privy to men who include them in their logic and even the sometimes circus-like dreams, they just want in.
Don’t forget your manners.
Chivalry is still alive and I’m a believer. Remember to introduce her first so she isn’t standing awkwardly for 10 minutes looking at the home screen of her phone. She could be a friend, girlfriend or even a co-worker, it doesn’t matter, proudly introduce first then continue conversation. It shows assertiveness and confidence in any situation and its also attractive.
Be a gentleman for no reason.
OK, we don’t have to be 1905 with it, but even in this day and age there are roles to play. Let her go before you on the metro. I understand you’re running late for work, but those 3 seconds of your life you gave up so that intern who is obviously unsure of her surroundings in dc, with her new “big girl job,” won’t hurt and she’ll forever be in debt to you for not having to wait 14 min for the next redline metro to Shadygrove. Also, open doors…not too early tho, never make a woman run up to a door in heels.
Surprise her via texts
Texts can include but are not limited by: “Good Morning”, “I got off early, I’d like to treat you to…”, “I got off early to see you”, “Hi beautiful”,”Don’t worry about that I already…” “Goodnight”. Women hate the ‘right’ text from the ‘wrong’ guy…Step up and be the ‘right text’, you’re the ‘right’ guy 🙂 (results may vary) So simple. We all think so.
OK guys, get out there, be great and don’t forget, be a gentleman 🙂
This post was written by Bella Kobusingye. Bella is a contributor to this blog and can be reached at firstname.lastname@example.org